Encouragement Sayings for Healing Relationships
Once upon a time, marriages lasted "till death do us part." Not so, anymore; at least for more than 50% of married couples today. Why do you suppose that is? Has the institution of marriage changed? Has very essence of a lifelong, loving relationship changed? No. Have we as a society changed? Perhaps. Has the very nature of love changed? Absolutely not. So what is it that makes the world we live in a place where broken relationships are significantly more common than successful relationships? Quite simply, we have fallen out of touch with ourselves, and cut ourselves off from the very source of love. Fortunately, healing a relationship can actually be very simple, once both people involved make the conscious choice to adopt a new outlook; a new philosophy. Encouragement sayings are a powerful way to begin the healing process in your relationship. Whether you are trying to patch a marital relationship, or even a relationship with a child, parent or friend, these tips should help.
Let Go
What is the cause of the riff between you and the other person? Is it relatively new, or has it been harboring within you for ages, lurking, growing, consuming? It's possible that you may have to reminisce for quite some time to get back to the actual source of your separation from this person. If your difficulties within the relationship are recent, is the source actually a recent event, or has this event just served to bubble up some buried, unsettled animosity toward this person? Jealousy? Resentment? Envy? All of these negative feelings can serve to destroy a relationship"any kind of relationship, no matter how deep, full or long standing.
After all that, you may be wondering, "What's the point?" What's the point in even starting a relationship? What's the point in repairing a relationship in which you feel you have been wronged? Because it's slowly, silently eating away at you, that's why. And because we are but one particle in the fabric of humanity; we are all connected, and if you are focusing so much energy into the problems within your relationship, you are cutting yourself off from those who would love you, as well as your very life source. So, step one on your journey toward healthy, happy relationships is to...
LET...IT... GO!
Another key to a successful relationship"and nowhere is this more obvious than it is within a marriage"is to take the time to appreciate your partner. Encouragement sayings, affectionate gestures, and lots and lots of gratitude, this trio is the "big gun" in your "tools for successful relationships" arsenal. By the way, you should be receiving these things as well...but will you? Even when they are offered?
At first, this is going to sound ridiculous, but when you think about it for just a moment you will realize it's absolutely true. What do you do when someone greets you with encouragement sayings? Do you graciously accept a compliment? Do you bask for just a moment in a "job well done?" You should, but do you?
The concept as a whole is simple. Let go of negative and unnecessary emotions that are holding you back. Appreciate the others in your life"and your self! And when someone offers encouragement saying to you, accept those words. They will only bring you closer to the secure and loving relationship that you desire, and deserve!
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By: Jason D Thompson
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